{"id":45,"date":"2011-09-07T11:23:00","date_gmt":"2011-09-07T10:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/?p=45"},"modified":"2020-03-14T18:00:16","modified_gmt":"2020-03-14T22:00:16","slug":"jail-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/2011\/09\/07\/jail-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Jail Time"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&nbsp; OMG! Such crap has been happening. This guy I have the hots has such legal problems, I&#8217;m at a loss of what to say. Let me start off saying he HAD potential. You&#8217;ll understand why I say had later on. So he&#8217;s a 26 year old with his own place, a nice job, and graduated from college, with not one degree BUT two. I know right.&nbsp; That gives him three check marks on my checklist. Then again, if you remember what I said, just because they have those three doesn&#8217;t mean that they are sane. So last month, my mother sends me this link to check on court dates for people. The website even tells what they are going for. I check myself to make sure I didn&#8217;t have any court dates against me. I didn&#8217;t. I check my mother, my sisters, and other relatives. Nothing. Thank goodness. I go to type in his name and up pops 4 records. 4 records!! What the hell?!? I check the first court date and you&#8217;ll never guess what its for. This dumbass has to go to court for cocaine charges. Yeah I said it. 2 for intent to sale and one for possession. How could he be so damn stupid?! I digress. I check the other three. One is for yet another DUI. ANOTHER ONE! I can&#8217;t believe that shit. Then one for driving with no license and busted headlight or something like that. Then, with me being my usual nosy self, I go to the NC prison website to see mug shots of people I know. Guess who has a mug shot and not a good one. That&#8217;s right. HIM! Apparently, he has a record and is also listed as a sex offender. Go figure that he didn&#8217;t want to mention anything about this to me. You really truly know a guy once he gets arrested. He&#8217;s on the&nbsp;Megan&#8217;s law website and everything. I was in shock. I&nbsp;couldn&#8217;t&nbsp;believe it. I still can&#8217;t. Just goes to show you really don&#8217;t know anyone at all until you break up with them and start snooping. Men wonder why women snoop during the relationship instead of after. Or rather was I too blind to see anything?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Like I said, this idiot HAD potential. No more. He&#8217;s more than likely going away to prison&nbsp;somewhere in NC&nbsp;to serve his time and lose his job&nbsp;in the process and I am moving on with my life. No more thinking what could have happened, or how we could have done things differently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Sad thing is, he probably hasn&#8217;t learned his lesson and probably never will. So the saying &#8220;all&#8217;s well that ends well&#8221; doesn&#8217;t really apply here I guess.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; OMG! Such crap has been happening. This guy I have the hots has such legal problems, I&#8217;m at a loss of what to say. Let me start off saying he HAD potential. You&#8217;ll understand why I say had later on. So he&#8217;s a 26 year old with his own place, a nice job, and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":110,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[11,12],"class_list":["post-45","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life","tag-crazy","tag-men"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46,"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45\/revisions\/46"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ericasjourney.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}