OMG! Such crap has been happening. This guy I have the hots has such legal problems, I’m at a loss of what to say. Let me start off saying he HAD potential. You’ll understand why I say had later on. So he’s a 26 year old with his own place, a nice job, and graduated from college, with not one degree BUT two. I know right.  That gives him three check marks on my checklist. Then again, if you remember what I said, just because they have those three doesn’t mean that they are sane. So last month, my mother sends me this link to check on court dates for people. The website even tells what they are going for. I check myself to make sure I didn’t have any court dates against me. I didn’t. I check my mother, my sisters, and other relatives. Nothing. Thank goodness. I go to type in his name and up pops 4 records. 4 records!! What the hell?!? I check the first court date and you’ll never guess what its for. This dumbass has to go to court for cocaine charges. Yeah I said it. 2 for intent to sale and one for possession. How could he be so damn stupid?! I digress. I check the other three. One is for yet another DUI. ANOTHER ONE! I can’t believe that shit. Then one for driving with no license and busted headlight or something like that. Then, with me being my usual nosy self, I go to the NC prison website to see mug shots of people I know. Guess who has a mug shot and not a good one. That’s right. HIM! Apparently, he has a record and is also listed as a sex offender. Go figure that he didn’t want to mention anything about this to me. You really truly know a guy once he gets arrested. He’s on the Megan’s law website and everything. I was in shock. I couldn’t believe it. I still can’t. Just goes to show you really don’t know anyone at all until you break up with them and start snooping. Men wonder why women snoop during the relationship instead of after. Or rather was I too blind to see anything?

     Like I said, this idiot HAD potential. No more. He’s more than likely going away to prison somewhere in NC to serve his time and lose his job in the process and I am moving on with my life. No more thinking what could have happened, or how we could have done things differently.

     Sad thing is, he probably hasn’t learned his lesson and probably never will. So the saying “all’s well that ends well” doesn’t really apply here I guess.